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On being and having a mother

by Erna Furman

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  • 17 Currently reading

Published by International Universities Press in Madison, CT .
Written in English

    Subjects:
  • Motherhood -- Psychological aspects,
  • Mothers -- Psychology,
  • Mother and child,
  • Developmental psychology

  • Edition Notes

    Includes bibliographical references and index.

    StatementErna Furman.
    Classifications
    LC ClassificationsHQ759 .F86 2001
    The Physical Object
    Paginationp. cm.
    ID Numbers
    Open LibraryOL3949264M
    ISBN 100823637328
    LC Control Number2001039895

    Mother Wounds are developed at a young age and are bound by the belief that “I was responsible for my mother’s pain,” and “I can make my mother happy if I’m a good girl/boy.” The truth is that we weren’t and still aren’t responsible for our mother’s pain – only she is.   A mother who is used to being involved in her daughter’s life may go into emotional anaphylactic shock during her child’s twenties. So herewith a list of the things all mothers striving to be.

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